It's the question every couple asks themselves at some point and time: "How and when do you decide your family is complete?" It's a very personal question that couldn't be more important, for it defines absolutely every event that follows afterwards.
It's funny that I've been asked to write about this question, for Michael and I have just had "the talk" a few weeks prior. Riley has just turned three years old and my husband has just turned thirty-six. We realize that if we are wanting another baby, we will definitely need to start pointing our thoughts and energies in that direction very soon. I'm thirty-five myself and as a Genetics major, I'm all too aware of the increased risks of having a baby in your later thirties to early forties.
Michael and I have been kicking this question around in the back of our thoughts and our conversations basically since Riley was born. When we decided to begin trying for Riley, it was such a wonderful time! We were so excited to become parents and actually create a life that would be an awesome little blend of the both of us. After one whole month of trying, we were pregnant and everything was falling quickly into place. Our finances worked themselves out perfectly and I was able to stay at home to raise Riley. Since Michael and I had always planned on having at least one child, our home was plenty big and we lived in a terrific neighborhood for raising children. I couldn't have been more thrilled to be a mom and Riley has been one of the absolute best things that has ever happened to me.
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